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[quote=Anonymous]It’s not a double standard, it’s just a kind of spineless man who doesn’t know his own opinions and doesn’t have confidence to make decisions, so he’s constantly looking for external validation for his decisions and/or basing his choices on random things he’s heard that sound good. My DH used to be like this. He has HFA and is really insecure about committing to things and doing things that people will approve of. His way of coping with his issues around perception of others’ feelings is to always be trying to do what he thinks “cool” or “normal” people do. The problem with that is that he’ll hear an offhand comment from someone once, like Legoland is for babies, or hip hop is trashy, and he’ll carry it around as gospel for life. Maybe your DH is similar, OP.[/quote]
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