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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That’s really bizarre.

Show up and cite arguments she overheard in the past and start arguments?

[b]Someone needs to tell her to Stop doing that or don’t show up anymore.[/b] Or all of you intervene and state that message. That’s F’d up.

Never seen that and am quite social as were my parents with many holiday and lake house parties over the past 50 years. Never saw a guest conjur up fights other people had had before.

Very odd. And odd you all supposedly didn’t nip this in the bud at first sight.[/quote]

NP here:
That person is her "cool" husband. But I bet he's scared sh#tless of her.

Has anyone broached the "cool" husband about his wife's lack of decorum?[/quote]

OP and I don’t think anyone has.

Look, I don’t know how I can nip this in the bud and don’t think I can. I’m just not going to spend as much time in this larger group or any time at all one on one time with her and I had in the past. I find my tolerance for petty stuff is basically gone as I age. I can’t explain why she’s increasingly acted like this. I’ve known her under a decade, and this has been a bummer. She acts like she’s just scrappy and fun and she’s been a real beast. Of course she’d crumble being treated as she treats others but I guess I just don’t even want to engage unless she goes after DH or me or DC. [/quote]

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