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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I wrote the post badly by accident, not to troll.

The person creating these crappy tense situations is the wife in a couple where the husband is cool. What she’s done repeatedly is pile on when someone in a different couple in the circle has a tiff of any kind in a social setting. She seems to love the audience and she’s absolutely relentless in arguing when she’s not directly involved. It pisses me and DH off, but it’s also not our business, and she’s still invited to group type stuff - not by us. It’s gotten worse with time. Most recently, she decided it was her business to reference a long-running disagreement a couple (not me and DH - I wanted to clarify that because I don’t have a direct ax to grind with her so I wrote “third parties”) has about a room in their house, whether it should be a den or not. She - and to try and be clear, it’s not this woman’s house - brought up the disagreement and kept picking at one of these people. It got ugly fast and she wouldn’t stop,  saying she “had to tell the truth and stand up for her friend” until the picked-on person finally shouted at her to leave. She flipped and said she had the right to her perspective in anyone’s house! It devolved from there.

This woman who got thrown out of someone’s house is now trying to get others to agree that she was right. That the angry person was drunk and trying to keep her from having her opinion. I used to love her as a friend and I can’t stand her anymore, and I’m not even the person she’s going after. She’s convinced that she’s just speaking her mind. Her DH is cool. It’s just unbearable for me being around her, because I never want to spend time with her anymore. Others seem to think that’s just her - I’ve avoided gossiping about her IRL because she’s just so effing mean and I don’t want to deal. [/quote]

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