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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm OP and I'm the wife. PPs are nailing it. My DH returns from trips drained and is kind of a downer. There is no happy to see me or anything. He was also upset about the trip (family stuff). Saying our headspaces are not synched up is an understatement. This makes me feel better. [/quote] Oh was he dealing with family stuff not work? That’s even harder. It’s a little easier now my kids are older but I think I also felt like I was doing so much while my DH traveled and barely making it until he’d get back and then he’d take some stupid flight and get in at 2AM and be tired and cranky. I had to tell him a bunch of times that I would genuinely prefer for him to come back a day later and be ok than take a red eye or something. He’s a much better traveler than I am so I used to feel so frustrated but work travel is tiring so I would make him take an Uber and then have a plan for an easy night for both of you (like get pizza delivered) because you are both tired.[/quote]
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