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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Both men and women initiate divorce around middle age. The difference:

1. Women are sick of caring for and dealing with men’s BS and they just want to be alone. The last thing they want is to play mommy to another man, whether he’s 20 or 50.

2. Men want a woman to take care of him, and women their own age see through that, so they have to find a younger, naive woman. If that means more kids, no problem - he barely cared for the first batch, he’ll do the same with these.

I’ve also noticed when people hit middle age and have the “oh shit I’m going to be dead soon” moment:

1. Women realize playing the role of good wife/mom isn’t fulfilling, and that happiness comes from within, so they shift to more self-care, hobbies, travel, alone time, work, friendships, etc.

2. Men typically already have those things (I have yet to meet a man who would feel guilty about spending a Saturday morning on his hobby), so they think they’ll be happy again if they can just find the RIGHT woman. The first one was all wrong, he won’t make that mistake again, this time he’ll find the right one.

Which never happens. There is no perfect woman. What they usually lack are good relationship skills. If they had just spent time learning that, they’d be fine.

I’ve seen this play out in a friend of mine. He’s on his third family. He bails once the kids get to be too much to handle and the wife is sick of his ineptitude. Finally, after the third time of the same cycle of finding the perfect woman only for her to get completely sick of his incompetence once they have a baby, he’s starting to get it. That it’s not the women, it’s him, and he would have been better off staying with his first wife. [/quote]

I hope you know your post is biased right lol. You are pretty much saying justifying women's divorce. If thats the case totally fine lol.[/quote]

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