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[quote=Anonymous]My husband said something similar to me, and I was also really hurt.  I think it would have helped if he had a real, actionable plan that I could start right then that would change the way he thought about me and my body.  
This sort of vague “lose weight” thing is tough.  Even if your husband worked at it, it could easily be months or a year before he really lost a significant amount of weight.

You are worried about his health, but it doesn’t sound like he has any health conditions right now, so insurance likely won’t cover Wegovy.  Maybe if you came to him with a plan on how to get a prescription for it and how to pay for it, that would be more helpful.  And maybe if you agreed to pack his lunches every day so that he didn’t have to go to the hospital cafeteria.  Or you agreed to be happier about his body as long as he was making progress and not just when he got to some kind of goal that you have for him, that would help.

I don’t know.  This all seems mean, OP.  [/quote]

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