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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He magically made it home about a half hour before I would normally be getting up for my morning workout. I won’t let him know I know what time he came in. [/quote]

Sounds like he wants to get caught. [/quote]

Probably. But I’m not giving him that luxury. He’s going to have to tell me and his child. [/quote]

OP, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I have been there and I can imagine how difficult it is. But please don't bring the child into it. Yes, they will eventually know you are divorcing (if that's where you're heading) but they DO NOT NEED TO KNOW WHY. It will feel good in the moment but it could cause a lot of long-term damage to the child. Kids do best during divorce when parents minimize conflict, communicate well, and support the child's continued relationship with the other parent. Telling kids about adult issues like an affair puts them in the middle and causes mistrust with BOTH parents.[/quote]

+1. My wife was a serial cheater, but I never found out. I suspected but never dug dipper. I kept the kids out if. Unfortunately they discovered her narcissistic side on their own and now don't even want to go her place. It's stressful for me because I still do want them to have a good relationship with their mother
.she is not my mother so I can care less about jer life. But it sadden me because I have such great relationship with my mother and I wish my kids had the same. When kids as young as 12 and 14 discover your flaws on their own, it must be bad.
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