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[quote=Anonymous]Your DH needs to step in and handle. It’s nonsense that he thinks she’s just “curious”; how would he feel if his FIL checked in every few days about his sperm production? Don’t talk to your MIL and don’t join calls. You’re doing your best under what sounds like a very stressful situation and you absolutely don’t need to explain or defend yourself to anyone. If anyone has strong ideas on how an infant should be fed, they are welcome to birth another and go for it. FWIW I had a similar dynamic with my otherwise sweet MIL (who failed breastfeeding herself and was obsessed over it for her grandchild) when my newborn had latching issues. It’s caused pretty severe postpartum depression for me. Please don’t repeat my mistake and subject yourself to comments you find hurtful. You just birthed a child. You don’t need to hurt yourself to be polite. There will be other opportunities to be polite, I promise. [/quote]
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