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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone that talks about their ex regularly, even negatively, has not moved on from the relationship yet.  I dated a guy once who by all accounts had a challenging coparenting relationship, but they had been divorced almost 5 years, and every single day he was going on and on about his ex. His ex was a central figure in enough of our conversations that I had to bow out after a few months when I realized I knew more about his ex wife than I knew about him, because that was all he talked about.

If friends and family are telling you that you seem to be spending an unhealthy amount of energy and anger at your ex, it’s probably time to do some self reflection and explore if there are other ways to live.  [/quote]

OP - Was his ex changing plans every week and constantly making him run around scrambling to even see the kids on his time because of her random whims and manipulations? That's what happens to me. I never know if my time with the kids will go as planned because he finds a way to sabotage it. I leave his time with the kids alone.[/quote]

No changes.

Follow the court ordered custody schedule

You have right of first refusal if he can’t do his custody time.
You do NOT have to run around accommodating his girlfriend or his requests to change custody for his work nor social life.

Just say no, that’s too much. There’s reasonable flexibility, which goes both ways in similar frequencies. And there’s BS. [/quote]

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