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Reply to "One member of friend group keeps taking group chats to specific members and I’m over it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you need to address it directly, but non-emotively and non critically, if that makes sense. Try not to make it personal, though it very much is. So I'd send a text to everyone saying something like "please remember to include everyone in text updates about group plans, it is discourteous to leave people out, even if it is unintentional. Thank you"[/quote] So people are never allowed to make their own plans??? Trying to control a voluntary means of communication never goes well. Maybe this person is failing to read the room, but the “group” is not some kind of monolith. These are not “side texts” but completely independent relationships. Maybe the person initiating them doesn’t feel comfortable always being in a big group or wants to suggest activities that they know only a few are interested it. But thanks OP for verifying why “friend groups” suck. Be an adult![/quote]
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