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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Give a few books on attachment issues. [/quote] Did you mean this to be snarky or rude?? I'm sure the OP's friend has already taken classes and read up on potential attachment issues.[/quote] No, not at all. But being abandoned by parents, or being taken away from the main caregiver at a young age creates a trauma that changes the neuropathways in the brain, literally altering the brain and how it processes. It's one thing to "read up on potential attachment issues" and quite another to have a few books right at your fingertips that you can quickly access when issues crop up. [/quote] I understand what you're saying. I already had books on attachment issues when my child came home; they're important, I agree with you. But to give it as a gift seems to be in the same spirit of giving books on divorce when someone gets married. Not exactly celebratory...[/quote]
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