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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex has more to lose. Just not sure if it'll ease or create more tension in the process.[/quote]

Got it, you are desperate to find a way to stick it to him.   Go for it. Don’t worry if you hurt the kids. [/quote]

Jeff I’m not sure what has happened to DCUM. This used to be a place I could come to for advice. Now it’s full of mentally ill trolls. I’ve been using DCUM for 15 years and user experience seems to be drastically declining in quality.

Fwiw, my ex refused to budge in mediation even though I bent over backwards to compromise. He wanted to go to court even though we proposed a parent coordinator in mediation. We told him court would mean a CE or GAL, and that they would most likely recommend joint custody (ex has manipulated situation and lied to the point kids don’t want to cross him and I can’t get them on my time). Perhaps he didn’t understand that once it got to court it would no longer be his decision, but a judge’s. [/quote]

Are you abusive? Current advice for people in abusive relationships is to just go straight to court.[/quote]

I don’t know if OP is abusive but she seems to have a fundamental misunderstanding of the court system. She posted before asking about how to get a mediator to convince her ex about joint custody. She seems to think that someone short of a judge can make her DH understand & do what she wants. Maybe what she wants is justified but at this point a judge is going to have to order it. This isn’t about OP being entitled to make her DH listen to her. [/quote]

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