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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well it depends— is every single aspect of your OLD profile completely attuned to avoid being seen in a flattering light? Like does your profile add a centimeter to your height, round your salary up to the nearest $10,000, or not mention debt? If so YTA because you’re a hypocrite and you needed to be polite. If no one could possibly feel disappointed by you in real life vs on your profile than NTA. [/quote] Everyone's OLD profile contains lies. The ancient pic of you with your ex's dog, the flattering angles, the cropped-out former lover, the vacation pic from that one trip you took 5 years ago... What OP doesn't realize is that if everyone posted their whole, real self on OLD profiles, nobody would ever match. You have to go into it knowing it's 50% fluff and then go from there. And if you find a dealbreaker, how you deal with it is about you, not your OLD date. OP wasn't technically wrong to point it out, but the way he did and the reasoning was crude and clinical. Behaving in a way you wouldn't want to be treated is a statement about yourself, and OP will hopefully have the opportunity to experience his own brand and learn this someday. Maybe in bed, when the measurements he promised don't read the same in person. :twisted: [/quote]
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