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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think any expectation - either internally or externally derived - that people are *supposed to* "get over" being betrayed by their spouse is innately bogus. I tried for a year, partly because I was already pregnant when I found out. I just couldn't do it. The pain of betrayal was too great and I couldn't bear the thought of continuing to dedicate myself to someone who held me in such low regard. If I were you, I would do all I could to ensure financial security for the rest of your days, without betraying (no pun intended) the long-term goal of leaving. There is NO SHAME in leaving an unfaithful spouse, and shame on anyone who indicates otherwise. Best of luck to you.[/quote]
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