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[quote=Anonymous]Do you know how much there is? If she has say $100,000 I would let it go. Elder care is expensive and you have the peace of mind there is someone who loves her looking out for her. If he inherits some of that, then let him enjoy it. If we are talking millions of dollars, I would bring it up and ask about what advice she got. He should inherit some money if he manages her care and caregivers are very expensive as are residential programs. In the end all you can do is gently bring it up and then if she stays in denial have your own boundaries. I would not start a fight. I would focus on accepting reality and enjoying the time you have with her, while also not using all your leave or risking your job to support her for medical emergencies. Let him be there and you help as much as you feel good about it without resentment. [/quote]
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