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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The oldest boomers were getting their first job and getting married in early to mid 60s. The 1970s were hard for working families. I am old enough to remember thinking the lines at gas stations and grocery stores were normal. I remember living in a house, but didn't think it was odd that the rooms weren't furnished for years, and "shopping" at garage sales to find a bed. My dad build my desk out of found materials. We wore clothes re-made out of material scavenged from Goodwill clothing. We made our curtains, grew and canned food, kids were sent on "adventures" into the woods to forage for berries, crab apples, and mushrooms. And we were privileged. We knew we were not poor, as my parents had good white collar jobs, and we lived in a nice middle class neighborhood, but all the money went into that home ownership, food, and gas so my parents could carpool to work. We were mostly latch key feral kids in our neighborhood (my mom was a non-contract teacher (so not pension eligible) so everyone ended up at our house after school); no one had nannies or after care or camps or club sports. No one went to restaurants. Vacation was camping (using Dad's old GI gear). No one had or needed multiple cars or electronics or giant metal mugs or fancy tennis shoes or cable TV or the myriad other things we think of today as "necessities." There was no extra money to be saving from age 22 on, and no, these boomers didn't have pensions either. Is that how your white collar life is right now? Would you be willing to live that way to get the house of your dreams? Because that's what a lot of Boomers did. I think the people who complain about Boomers must come from truly wealthy and privileged families. Further to a PP's pension story, my uncles retired with healthy pensions too, until the companies let the pension funds go bankrupt and left them with literally nothing to live on (pre-1974 PBGC). They and their wives did not go golfing, they went job hunting in their late 60s-early 70s. Not everyone had it as easy as your family. And not a lot of jobs had pensions in the first place.[/quote] Sure, a lot of Boomers had to work hard and sacrifice in their early years. Still I know so many that are able to retire at 60-65 after having only normal middle class jobs, with even a single earner family, thanks to pensions and massive real estate gains. [/quote] And they were able to do that with 3+ kids while we're crunching the numbers on whether we can afford more than one given costs of daycare and college and the need for both parents to work 50+ hours. I STG, I never think about how good Boomers had it until someone comes on this board trying to insist that actually, they had it the hardest! It doesn't consume my days or anything. But PPP, please don't try to rope us into cosigning some hardscrabble boomer fantasy based on them "getting married and starting families in the early 60s" (when they were 15?) and then finding all of their food in the woods. They cut down all the woods, FFS. [/quote]
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