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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wild how you can step out to google and determine the vast majority of people have tolerable to excellent parents, yet virtually every DCUM poster has some terrible “narc” or whatever is the diagnosis du jour.

The idea that inflicting harm and taking vengeance is mentally healthy and ends generational trauma is its own kind of sick. Your children will imitate you. 
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You don't make sense. If children imitate their parents, then whomever has problems with their parents, they're imitating them as you say, no? Or what exactly are you trying to convey? That the current adult children shouldn't imitate their parents (since these elderly parents have not been tolerable as you say), but they should be afraid that if they do imitate, then their children will do the same? Then all's fine, no? Worry about your own children and who they'll imitate. You seem incredibly anxious about that. People who have come to terms with their parents faults are not worried about trying to do better for their own kids.  [/quote]

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