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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your visit seems pretty typical for the oldest grandkid and that’s exactly what we experienced for our oldest. It is exhausting chasing a toddler in a house filled with fragile things!

By the time we had 2 kids, we had paved the path for my nieces and nephews. Now 1-2 rooms are fully baby/kid proof. There are a few toys that stay at the grandparents house and can be used by many ages - balls, crayons, simple games like Candyland. Grandparents get books at the library for the kids to read while visiting and some kid friendly food and snacks. It gets easier as they get older and potty trained. Grandparents don’t need a ton of energy to sit on a park bench and watch kids play on a playground. [/quote]

I’ll add that I think these visits are hard for everyone. Retired grandparents are used to having their own schedule and routine - and babies and toddlers are not known for being flexible - so it seems like someone is always having a tantrum.

When my kids were 2-4, the grandparents kept suggesting activities appropriate for a 6-7yr old - sitting in a movie theatre for a full length film, going to performance or amusement park during nap time, etc. Now my kids are that sweet spot of 7-12 yrs old and my in-laws just went on vacation with us  - only I think they misjudged their abilities and patience based on 1 day visits.[/quote]

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