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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're obviously not pulling your weight financially.  Picking up a token bill here or there is not cutting it and he's telling you that you need to do more.  You're an adult in your 30's, go 50/50.[/quote]
Maybe I’m spoiled but I’ve never had this issue with other boyfriends. I had a boyfriend who made less than me and he insisted on paying almost every time we went out. And I would offer and he would occasionally accept but like, I’ve never had a relationship where it was 50-50 and it was never a problem. I didn’t think it was a problem in this relationship because early on I would offer and he would make a big stink about how men shouldn’t let women pay for them and he would never make me pay for anything. As I type this I am now realizing he likely said that to lock the relationship down.

If my boyfriend is telling me to do more than I would appreciate him saying how much more he expects me to do, rather than just being passive aggressive about it. [/quote]

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