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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My best friend’s rising 5th grader is very dark—into vampires, talking about death, etc.  Also identifies as nonbinary and autistic but my friend has told me that the therapist is doubtful about both of those things—seems like the kid is just “trying out” identities.

We’ve always hung out a ton with their family but, as summer comes to an end, I’m feeling like the 5th grader is just sort of a source of bad info and a bad influence.   For example, she has convinced by 3rd grader that she has ADHD (no doc or teacher has brought this up, but now my kid is convinced that she has adhd and is mad at me for “not treating it”).  I don’t love a 10 year old diagnosing my 8 year old.

Anyway, I would have no issue with my kid having adhd or being gender queer or any of my friend’s kid’s identities but the whole situation just feels a little challenging.  My friend’s kid is at a totally appropriate age for testing out these type of identities and I feel like my kid who is a few years younger and much less mature is getting swept into before she’s ready or would otherwise be interested.

Just not sure how to handle this.  We love hanging out with this family.  [/quote]

How on EARTH would your child know what this other child's therapist would say, let alone that the therapist is "doubtful" and says the friend is "trying out identities."

Setting aside the fact that these are not things a therapist would say, except maybe to reassure an anxious parent, it's completely unbelievable that your child would be privy to these comments.

So, either you're trolling or this "friend" is actually your child and a therapist has said these things to you.

Which is it?[/quote]

PP you have reading comprehension issues.[/quote]

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