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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What makes it great for me is that it gives me just the right balance between my work-self and my home-self. I am domestic by nature - I love the domestic arts such as sewing, knitting, cooking, housecleaning, decorating, etc. - and working part-time enables me to satisfy domesticity-cravings. When I worked full-time, I always felt frustrated in that regard. The other thing I love about working part-time is that my kids, ages 15 and 12, are at ages where they'll talk when it suits them, and not when it doesn't, and it generally suits them to talk right when they get home from school. In the evenings, they tend to have moved past or forgotten whatever went on during the day, and they clam up. My 15yo in particular is a very anxious kid, prone to social anxiety, and I am glad that I can be here for him when he needs to talk. RE my schedule, I am a lawyer and work about 25-30 hours a week, spread over three days. (Two days, I don't work at all.) I am flexible about start and stop-times, and occasionally work in the evening or on an off-day during a crisis, but by and large my off-days are sacred. I don't worry much about saving for retirement because DH and I both max out our contributions and we are on track to retiring at a reasonable age. Ditto re: college savings. Our financial planner tells us that if I never make more than I currently do, we will be fine. Because we save so much in 401ks and 529s, our take-home pay isn't great, and we do live pretty frugally. It doesn't bother me at all to live this way, however, because doing all those things to save money (cooking, freezing, thrifting) are part of the domestic arts I love so much. :-) Bottom-line, working part-time makes me feel human and whole in ways that I never felt when I worked full-time. I may never work full-time again.[/quote] Another lawyer here. I work full time so I can pay someone else to do the domestic stuff and so I don't have to live frugally. Different strokes![/quote]
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