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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, absolutely bring it up, but make sure you also empower him to make his own decisions. Don't tell him to break up, but do explain your concerns. Money is the number one issue in divorce. If you marry someone with debt, their debt becomes yours and if the person is spending out of control on top of that it's a recipe for disaster. I am female and save and invest. I broke up with men I though were delusional with money-living way above their means. My husband and I are very compatible financially and have never once argued about money. We live below our means and so when emergencies hit like high medical expenses, home repairs, etc it does not cause us stress other than time logistics. We know we can afford it and be fine.[/quote]
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