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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How have you celebrated your parents (or ILs) 50th anniversary?  Did you ask them what they wanted to do (e.g., party, family trip, etc.) or just do it as a surprise?  My sister booked an event venue for next summer on their anniversary date without really asking anyone (including my parents) first.  I don't want to be a jerk about it, I just thought there would be more of a conversation about what [i]they[/i] wanted to do, the costs (since we'd be sharing the cost along with our other sibling), and a date/location that would work for everyone.  I'm not sure, if given the option, that my parents would prefer a party over a trip with their kids/grandkids.  The whole thing seems a bit presumptuous to me, but I'm also probably clouded by my immediate family's personal situation (we will be living overseas and travelling back to our small city hometown in the high summer season will be very expensive) and I don't want to make it all about us.  I know my sister thinks she is doing a good thing, and she's already told a lot of people the party, so I don't know if I should just go along and try to make it work or suggest we take a step back (provided she could even get the deposit back).[/quote]

If you can figure out a better date for you, her and them do it. Otherwise be happy anything is getting done.

Behind my back my brother went and got my dad formula 1 tickets and flights one for $5k and I only got him a dinner gift certificate. For his 80th.  So yeah, sometimes siblings don’t ask you, they just do. [/quote]

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