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[quote=Anonymous]The biggest source of contention with my in-laws is when they have expectations for how, when, and where we spend time together as a family and don’t consult me to see if that is how I want to spend my time, energy, and money. It feels so disrespectful to not be consulted, particularly because I run the household, the calendar, the kids activities, and pay all the bills. Don’t assume that just because you asked your adult child that they have discussed it with their spouse. Don’t make the couple feel guilty if they say no to a request. Your DIL or SIL may have different values and prioritize their time and commitments differently than you do. Accept them as they are, not how you want them to be. [/quote]
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