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[quote=Anonymous]I honestly do not think that much about the relative physical attractiveness of middle aged men, though I'm married to one. I'm attracted to my husband and if I think about it objectively I think he looks pretty good. But my attraction to him is a about a lot more than his looks and to some degree they are beside the point-- our emotional connection and shared history is WAY more important. And for that reason I can't imagine caring what someone else's husband looks like. He could be an Adonis but dud he good my hand while I gave birth or show up for me emotionally when I lost my job? Did he weather Covid with me and our very young kids? Has he seen me at my very worst and stick with me or seen the very best if me that is invisible to others (the way I show up for him and the kids at 2am or in small private moments that no one else sees). If not, WHO CARES. I'd take my DH over Channing Tatum or Brad Pitt or the hot dad down the street every day if the week and twice on Sundays.[/quote]
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