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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]tell us more about "wasn't willing to do many of the standard techniques"... what does that even mean?[/quote]

OP here. Oral and anal. [/quote]

Anal isn't standard.[/quote]

OP here. He had some kinks, and I wasn’t interested in participating. It was important to him, so we stopped dating. [/quote]

well, were they kinks or was he trying to get you to do something non-standard?[/quote]

OP here. I have no idea. Basically we weren’t sexually compatible. [/quote]

Are you willing to have anal now?[/quote]

OP here. I think it makes sense to focus on the rest of my question. But to respond to your answer, I would prefer not to. [/quote]

It's very relevant in terms of what type of relationship you two have. If you'd be willing to do it, maybe he sees a rekindling or the possibility of taking you on as a sidepiece. [/quote]

OP here. He’s asked me to get back together with him multiple times since we’ve broken up but I told him no. Not interested in being a side piece or doing casual. I’ve moved on from that part of my life, and am not interested in dating him. [/quote]

Has he asked you or implied that he’d be open to you being a side piece since he started dating the new girlfriend?  Do you get the sense that if you were open to having that kind of relationship with him right now, that he’d be down for it?  If so, then the girlfriend is likely picking up on those vibes too.  Just something to consider. That said, neither of them seems to be handling their feelings well, and it’s not cool for him to be putting you into the middle of this.  It doesn’t sound like a good relationship for either of them, but if he’s carrying a torch for you then he’s going to have a hard time with future relationships too.  [/quote]

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