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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds toxic and immature.[/quote]

I don't think that was the question.[/quote]

NP. Why bother with any of it? Sounds like an energy vampire and I heard nothing about why this friendship is positive for you.[/quote]

OP here. Before the new gf entered the picture, he would call me to chat, etc. and I enjoyed hearing from him. Nowadays, it hasn’t really been a positive experience for me so I’m not sure what the future holds in that regard. Because if they break up, it’s not as if things will go back to how they used to be. [/quote]

OP here. I should also note that we were inseparable best friends for years, so the new gf in effect wants to replace me as his best friend. [b]He was concerned that he’d be left without an emotional support network in the event they break up if he burns a bridge with me.[/b] Though they have done a great job in succeeding in destroying our friendship, and he and she have already broken up twice in six months. So it’s not a great situation. [/quote]

The bolded concerns me since clearly he views you as an emotional crutch. It sounds deeper than just a friendship at least in his mind if he is that worried that he won’t have any support system if this one female is no longer in his life. Does the man not have any guy friends, brothers, sisters, family members, co workers. It just seems odd to me that he feels he won’t have NO support system if you are the only person no longer in his life. Just some food for thought![/quote]

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