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[quote=Anonymous]+1 to working through this with a counselor. A counselor can not only help you process your thoughts/establish boundaries, etc. but also help you frame 'the story' of your divorce. I certainly wouldn't hide or keep it secret - but it can be retold in a way that is true to your experience but doesn't shift the emotional burden to your kids. I also think it would be helpful for your kids to know this information because it's highly unlikely the kids will be spared his abuse in the future. They could his target or witness it directed at his next romantic interest or both. They're going to need to know how to handle it or, at least, report it to you. [/quote]
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