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[quote=Anonymous]It depends on your expectations. I live in NYC. My younger sister is 24 and likes to come up often, at her own convenience and usually with her own agenda (visiting friends, etc.), which is fine by me. I issued a standing request for the doorman to give her the spare keys when she shows up, so she comes and goes as she pleases. I see her when I see her and don’t have to plan around her. She orders herself takeout or goes out or helps herself to whatever is in the fridge/freezer, so I don’t have to do anything special with respect to food. We usually have some meals together but sometimes she just uses the place as a hotel. I talk to her regularly and we’re close so I don’t really care. But this is my expectation - if she asked specifically to come and spend time with me and then didn’t, I’d probably also feel a bit used like you do, OP. Maybe try to plan time together in advance if it’s important to you.[/quote]
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