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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And also, I have had more than 50 first dates as well. That means nothing. Have you gotten to 5 dates with a lot of people? I have. I have also had relationships—that is where the problems are. First dates are easy.

People can lie. It happens.

You were lucky but also it sounds like you base your OLD “success” on first dates. That is the easy part. You are not better than other people nor does more than 50 first dates make you and OLD success. I have had plenty (more than 50) of first dates that were good. It is later than things happen. And with perfectly respectable people. All it takes is one time of something bad happening. You can’t predict this. [/quote]

I’m not pp but like you and pp I’ve had hundreds of matches and first dates. Scores of relationships, five of which were over 2yrs (I’m 50) and been married 15 yrs.

Dating, romance, relationships and marriage has always been fun happy and satisfying for me

“All is mind” people who have bad dating experiences usually have bad everything experiences in life

People who have fun dating experiences usually have a fun happy and content life

Many of my friends and I have exchanges dating stories and since I tend to associate with happy content successful people our stories are overwhelmingly fun and happy. Ofc a few bad dates, catfishes, outright liars, and weirdos in the mix but if you are overwhelmingly having bad dating or OLD experiences the problem is not everyone else. The problem is something deep inside you

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You are married for 15 years meaning your positive dating experience relates to 20-35 age group. Of course dating is best for women at this age. 
But it’s the fact that post age 40 it’s very hard for both genders and the dating space is saturated with people with bad intentions, liars, cheaters etc. Men in particular behave poorly abusing the apps and sleeping with multiple women at the sans time . Didn’t you see what they tell on this forum about older women being only for f…king etc ? 
I don’t know where the PP found good material to have 50 first dates (and allegedly all with public image respectable etc). I had many matches but could probably find 2-3 first date worthy people per month after the video dates. [/quote]

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