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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I broke up a very long term relationship after finally realizing having kids with him would not be a good idea, when I was 31. I knew I wanted a family so I started dating and took it as seriously as a job; I went on 2-3 new dates per week and went on over 100 first dates: 10-15 of those turned into second dates (which are real first dates since the first time you meet someone, it’s really just that, a meeting). I had three relationships, one short but fun, one 5 months with someone who hadn’t healed from their own issues, and the third is my DH—met when I was 32, married at 34, going strong after 10+ years and two kids.

Read this, it will be helpful:
http://bookoutlines.pbworks.com/w/page/14422733/Why%20Men%20Marry%20Some%20Women%20And%20Not%20Others

Good luck!
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OP here. Thanks. That was a helpful read. I actually don't have a problem attracting men, although last time I was single was about a year ago. I usually get lots of dates within a couple days of being on the apps and men ask to be exclusive within a few dates. I am successful in that regard. The only thing I worry about is that has to dry up eventually and I'm worried that it will be now lol. But I figure last time I was single I was 30 so there can't be that much of a difference between 30 and 31, right? If anything I lost some weight this year. [/quote]

Ignore 11:49.

I also had no issues getting and keeping dates but you want to find a needle in the haystack. Do not compromise on the important things (kindness, sanity, executive function, true love/someone crazy about you, and good intimacy). In order to find a match with whom you can build a long and successful life, you will have to kiss (or at least get coffee with) a lot of frogs, but every pot has a lid and your guy is out there.

31 is nothing! You are young and beautiful. I’m 45 now and still feel and look great.[/quote]

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