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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This used to be an issue in the early years of my relationship with DH. He and his friends would go whenever they were out of town or if we (wives) were away. We went one time together with a group from college and I decided that it was not for me.

It just always felt like light cheating and a slippery slope to more than that if they’re willing to be separated from our money. Porn is one thing, in person contact is another.
 
I don’t think my opinion ever actually stopped him from going, and we had some post-trip big  dramatic fights over it. But as we all rolled into our 30s and started becoming parents, they all stopped going. The last time I remember DH going he said he felt like a dirty old man.

I too suspect your DH is lying about his choice to go to the club, and I think the who he was with and how they ended up there matter. My DH is in an industry where going to strip clubs with co-workers might get them all fired, but I’m sure he was in strip clubs in Vegas with friends in his 20s. 
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It's also depressing as crap. A bunch of lonely guys leaning against the wall, drinking and watching women they will never be with. In fact, I'm depressed just writing this.[/quote]

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