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[quote=Anonymous]I would add that if she thinks she is hiding her feelings, then she's probably wrong.

For some reason, my MIL didn't really like me. Everyone in our generation saw it; even after we were married many years, all of the women in the family would get a gift, except me. She would hang the family picture that everyone but me in it. She was always nice and polite to me, but her feelings were obvious. It really hurt at first until I finally let it go. Now, years later, we get along fine, and I just let whatever annoys me flow on by.

A couple of years ago my MIL's husband passed away. My H was talking with her after and she mentioned how she has never really liked husband's son-in-law. My H was like, yeah...we all know that. She was SHOCKED that we all saw...she thought she hid it so well. My H almost said something to her about me but it wasn't the right time. But my point is, no matter how much you think you hide it, people pick up on stuff. So it would be better to work on things from the inside out (looking for the positives, etc) rather than just trying to fake it.[/quote]

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