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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's fine to sleep on the couch to have some space, but it's interesting that OP said he stopped doing it when he noticed it didn't bother her. That suggests he was only doing it as a tactic, not to decompress. And now that she's suffered the trauma of a miscarriage he has chosen to bring that tactic back. That's a red flag to explore. Could be wants to hurt her. Could be he doesn't want to deal with the big emotions of the miscarriage... it seems rather unsupportive. I do think you need to speak about it in a calm, non-confrontational way. Ask "I noticed you went back to sleeping on the couch. You hadn't done that in a while. Is everything ok?"[/quote]
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