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This is the most obscene projection of your own morals/standards onto another human being. Even the OP makes it clear that at no point in time did this guy call her his GF, and he repeatedly indicated, and outright stated, that they were not BF/GF. That she wanted it to be so doesn't make it so; he gets to have this little thing called "agency" over his own life, and he's not required to be her BF just because she wants it. Which is pretty much the entire theme of Veruca's rant here: she wants what she wants and she wants it now, or she's going to scream, flounce, unfriend, and otherwise act like a whiny brat.

"If he cannot sacrifice from time to time to calm his girl" OP is not his girl, and he's made that quite clear. She's "a girl", not his betrothed or some other delulu romance novel nonsense.

"What kind of man puts their friends first?" Was OP in labor or some other detail I missed?  :lol:

If this is you, OP (and it sure sounds like your whinging): flip your script. What kind of girlfriend makes this many demands on a man she allegedly loves? What kind of woman feels entitled to control a man's friendships instead of controlling her own emotions? What kind of woman uses a status the man has already expressed a lack of interested in as a moldy carrot, and then claims he's gay when he won't jump through her hoops?

"A selfish prick with no concern for the other's feelings & no respect" indeed. One who treats a man as an object of servitude rather than a serious partner.

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He knew right from the start what I wanted. He should've removed himself from my life if he didn't want me as his gf. Instead, he chose to continue using me with no commitment, stealing my emotional energy, throwing out some 'wife' hooks to keep me around. Predatory male methodology.

"This many demands" - I disagree. It's a reasonable amount. Thinking he's gay was not about the status or lack thereof, but about coldness & lack of affection. He had me whenever he wanted. I was a 'partner' until more attractive companionship came along. Or rather, I was a partner and wasn't one, depending on his needs. Nowadays people only think about their freedom and fun, with no consideration for the other. Then we wonder how there's so many divorces. A paradise for a man, no requirements or expectations, only pleasures at the expense of another.

A mature relationship is about two people supporting and helping each other and being there for each other in difficult times. It's about partnership, not about one person having fun and the other sitting at home with their problems. The woman is a second-class citizen and the man enjoys her from time to time when he can't keep it in his trousers anymore. Now that's true love, take note everyone.[/quote]

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