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[quote=Anonymous]I’m going through the same thing. Divorce is akin to a death and must be grieved as such. And like death, you don’t get over it, you make peace with it. Three years out from a 17 year marriage and I’m not there yet. My ex was cruel like yours and yet the reconciliation fantasies come early and often. It is hard to accept that he couldn’t treat me kindly with any consistency. I wish I could have contorted myself into the person he wanted me to be. So in addition to grieving the marriage I blame myself for my imperfections. It’s a tough road for sure. [/quote]
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