Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Off-Topic
Reply to "Question about a death in a jewish family"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - two more questions - one, can I wear a sleeveless shirt? And two, can I go to the house for Shiva after the funeral and not go to the service - or does that look bad? I have a conflict - funeral is tomorrow am.[/quote] Yes, sleeveless shirt to the house to pay a shivah call is fine. Spaghetti straps, probably not. Yes, just making a shivah call is perfectly fine. Many people don't go to the funeral service or the cemetery (if you do go to the cemetery though, please turn off the radio in your car when you drive in - it's considered respectful to the dead). You don't even have to say "Sorry I couldn't make it to the funeral/cemetery." I've gone to a ton of funerals and honestly only remembered the people who came to the house. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
