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[quote=Anonymous]I am going to defend the "weird" friend here...maybe she's done a lot of therapy or self-exploration and feels true regret about the way she ended things. (Is she Jewish? Yom Kippur is coming up...) Anyway, I think sometimes people feel that they want to rectify mistakes made in the past. It might be very therapeutic for her to hear from you that you don't hold it against her and that although you were sad the friendship ended, you have moved on without a grudge. If you feel safe/comfortable enough, you could ask her what prompted her to write after all this time. I wouldn't go too far in engaging with her, but I don't think there's harm in asking a few pointed questions to assess her motivation. [/quote]
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