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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long did it take him to clean up the trash? [/quote]
OP here. You know he didn’t. [/quote]

Seriously?! Mine would’ve been cleaning all night and steam cleaning again today.[/quote]

NP.  So you don't have a vindictive ASD DC.  Just unhelpful criticism.[/quote]

I get told no, I spread garbage on the floor, I do fun things while mom cleans it up. Watching mom get upset and clean garbage is fun. Next time she’ll probably get me what I want, if she doesn’t I’ll make a bigger mess.

I get told no, I spread garbage on the floor, I spend all night and day cleaning and don’t get to do fun things. Cleaning garbage is smelly and not fun, Next time I won’t spread garbage.

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Mmmm hmmm. And are you going to beat the kid when they don't do it? Put a gun to their head as they clean? Because some kids still wouldn't clean up the garbage. I think you don't know what you are talking about here. [/quote]

[b]I know that a child with absolutely zero rate compliance and zero effective reinforcers is incredibly rare[/b]. If true, then I’d make them throw away one piece and clean the rest myself. Then I’d start with a complete analysis of the environment and conduct multiple preference and reinforcer assessments, starting with everything from the Chick-fil-A menu. Then I’d start basic compliance training. [/quote]

This statement is implying that the behavior is OP's fault for not parenting good enough.  That's both wrong and hurtful.  As well as unhelpful.  OP is not responsible for the vindictive behavior, whether or not she or the DC or someone else or no one cleans it up.  [/quote]

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