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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I crazy or is this just against the rules of a breakup? Six months post breakup you don't move TO that person's neighborhood which increases your chances of running into them. [/quote]

Amicable breakup/mutual split? Fine. Acrimonious, he dumped you? Dick move, but whatever. Acrimonious/abusive, you dumped him? Offputting af.

Abusive to the point one party scorched the Earth or had to get authorities involved to extricate themselves? Stalker move. Creepy.

You'll have to be more forthcoming with the breakup details to get a better answer, OP.[/quote]

+1 Details matter, yes. And is "neighborhood" an area in a city center? The same apartment building? A suburban town where people run into neighbors All. The. Time. at the same few grocery stores and coffee shops? A suburb of a city where someone can live in your "neighborhood" but though their house is three blocks away, you might never run into them ever? Will they have kids the ages of your own kids so you will end up at school events together for years to come? Neighborhood as a term isn't helpful here.

I don't need breakup details other than it was relatively OK/he won't bug OP, or it was horrible and he could genuinely be stalking. I do need to know what "neighborhood" means here. [/quote]

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