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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look, a symptom of unhappiness is the belief that it has been this way “forever.” It’s not necessarily true. He’s interpreting a story based on the present moment. It is unusual he is asking to go to counseling. It could be a great sign. It could also be that there’s something going on he’s scared to tell you. Men having affairs often claim they have “been unhappy a long time.” It’s a cliche.[/quote] I was about to say this^. Mine came out of the blue with that “not happy” when in a “no strings” affair. It came a time when he was struggling to get out of it and increasing alcohol use in secret too. Blindsided by both since zero warning signs- except he had started therapy for himself. It wasn’t revealed in therapy to me. I never went until after confession. Major midlife crisis. But some do use couples therapy to reveal dark secrets in a “safe space”. [/quote]
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