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[quote=Anonymous]You don't have to forgive, OP. You can cut ties, and move on, but particularly in the instance of your ex asking for your forgiveness, you don't have to offer that. I think forgiveness means something different to everyone. I will never forgive a family member who abused me when I was younger - and I've told that to other members in my family. But that doesn't mean that I'm consumed by anger. I define forgiveness as not blaming or being mad at someone for something that person has done, and that's NEVER going to happen. I've never seen forgiveness as something that benefits me, I've always seen it as something that benefits the other person. Like they've been expunged of their hurtful behavior. [/quote]
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