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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]worst thing for an unattractive daughter is a gorgeous mom, she should dump him [/quote]

She should think of the children they are going to have before pursuing a long term relationship with that man.

I know it sounds cruel but it would be more cruel to be gifted with beauty and good genetics and waste that gift by having kids with an ugly man.

These days women have more choice than men. Never settle for less. [/quote]

What even is this response?

My husband is super model gorgeous.  When we met more than a decade ago he had an eight pack, total gorgeousness but also smart and kind.  He had dated and had relationships as we both did but with a few famous or well known people.

I on the other hand am fine looking but in no way beautiful.  I had medical issues as a kid so had to have surgeries including plastic surgery which helped a ton but I still hate my nose.

When we started dating people would look, it was very obvious, but we didn’t care.  He thought I was beautiful and smart and the best person ever and I thought that about him.  His mom even made comments.

We have been married more than 10 years and he’s gained a bit of weight and looks older now, but we love each other and find each other attractive.

If your sister is embarrassed by him she should unpack that and possible let him go.  My now husband (says) he was never embarrassed of me.  I met his family right away, go to work events, met his friends, attended weddings, etc.  I know people who purposely don’t bring their partner to events and that to me is a red flag (unless they are introverted and don’t want to go).

Also to PP we have kids and I will say our kids are very attractive.  People comment which I don’t like but they clearly got the good looks lottery.

Looks can fade.  You can have an accident (like I did as a kid) and not get those looks back.  You’re stuck with the person. [/quote]

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