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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, it never came back. He really only 'felt' it because it affected our sex life and he cared about that, but he never made the connection. We divorced. It was easy enough for me because I had money. If I hadn't I would imagine we would be leading separate lives and it would have been awful for the kids.[/quote] Didn’t the divorce cost you a ton if you were the one with the money/income? It’s not easy parting with 1/2 of all you’ve earned/invested over the decades?[/quote] What's your happiness and sanity worth? You can always make more money. I was a higher-earning spouse (woman) who got divorced due to ex-spouse's lack of action on anything. I had to pay him a ton of alimony but honestly it was fine. Sure, I'd rather have the money now but I will make more. At least now I'm not unhappy. [/quote] Are you in VA? Could you share your salaries and how much you had to give him for alimony? And for how long? I’m in a similar situation. [/quote]
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