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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. [b]If I move he will pay for private, summer camp, vacations, housing[/b]. But I’m on my own for retirement.

My perspective is how do we make joint decision without joint future interest. To me looks like he’s in it until college at the latest. His perspective is even so I’d be better off than I am now. [/quote]

So he [i]wouldn't[/i] pay for the kids to go to summer camps or private school where you are right now? That's predicated entirely on whether you come back as his wife/GF? This guy who only has to spend 10 percent (per your earlier post) of his large income on child support and child expenses combined?? If he can afford extras for the kids he should be willing to pay for those things FOR THE KIDS regardless of whether you come back to his bed or not. I know, he's surely saying "I'd do all this to make it easier on the kids!" but come on, it's a bribe to get you to move.

What happens if the romantic and sexual reunion does not work out, but the kids have already uprooted and are in some private school and lined up for summer camps etc.? Will he just say, sorry, deal's off, head for public school in the new area, forget summer camps, vacation is off, etc.?

Do not put yourself and your kids into his control this way. He is likely pitching this to you as him being so considerate of you and the kids and in his head, he may think that's the truth, but the reality is: If he would not provide that level of spending on the kids [i]no matter where they live[/i], he is only dangling those things to get you to reunite with him. He's trying to buy back his family. 
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