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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DS is 8th grade, plays a team sport in State level, and has very good academic at school. He takes care his school study well and works hard in his travel team practice/games. 
He is our only child, is quiet at home most of the time, not much talk with us, behavior normal. This week he suddenly told mom that he is a gay, he said he feel more comfortable to stay with girls, but does not like girls at all. His school friends know this and some girl even introduced a boyfriend to him. He said he has no body touch with other boys yet.

We are a bit shocked for this, we are going to have a more in-depth conversation see how serious he is. And should we take him to see a doctor/counselor to assess him? or just treat this as adolescent rebellion and this minds may go away when he in HS/College?[/quote]

I would just make very clear to him you still love him very much despite this happening to him, and that you will always be there to support him as he works through this difficult and challenging time in his life.[/quote]

No, not “despite this happening to him”. Totally wrong language. Nothing happened to him. And certainly nothing that requires a  qualifier “I love you even though…” Just “I love you.” Full stop.[/quote]

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