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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, can you talk to the other sibling? They might think the Helpful Sibling is doing too much, taking on too much, stepped in when it wasn't 100% needed. Some siblings want to step in more than others at early stages.[/quote] Yes, everyone has talked with the unhelpful sibling—as a group, and individually. Nobody stepped in too early/when help wasn’t needed. The most helpful sibling isn’t controlling or doing anything that isn’t necessary. I guess we are just stumped as to how the unhelpful sibling can justify leaving the work to the rest of us. I’m trying to get them involved and to realize they might be cut out from the family. At some point I won’t be able to fix things for the unhelpful one. I’m sad that the kids/cousins will be impacted by this. [/quote]
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