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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your post is basically a self-congratulatory brag. It's annoying. I feel the prior "ew" although I am a DP.

I've been with model-looking guys, meaning underwear model types that you see in magazines. The novelty of looks wears off after a few months. And when you spend more time with them, you find that they have bad breath in the mornings, ain't so great before they get done up, burp and fart just like the rest of us. So, no, their looks don't given them a pass. If there is a worse looking guy but has more swagger, more ambition/achievements, and more sexual prowess in bed, I'd be all over the ugly one.
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How am I bragging? This is an anonymous form. Also, there are lots of hot people on the planet, some of us are married to them.

But anyway, sweetheart he has all the other things you mention outside of hotness too...ambition, achievements, sexual prowess, he loves me, takes care of me, etc. I am not that shallow, I know hot men poop and fart like anyone else! I would never marry unless it was the whole package.

I am more fascinated by the psychology behind looks being correlated to bad behavior passes in relationship dynamics. I just know I was never this chill in other relationships, and the guys were less hot. [/quote]

In my twenties I dated someone who was objectively super hot -- this might reveal him, but when he was a hill staffer, January Jones came to his office and then pursued him and they dated for a while.

He certainly expected lots of "passes" and everyone bent over backwards to make him happy.

Now Im in a marriage where my husband finds my hot and he lets me get away with a lot of bratty behavior (that this twenties guy wouldn't have).

Definitely something to it. There was a 30rock episode with Jon Hamm about being "in the bubble" of hotness. It's hilarious.[/quote]

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