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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]One way to not shatter his self-confidence after a sudden job loss would be to hide your resentment from him. [/b]Also, if you want him to come home after work rather than working longer hours then you may want to consider not expressing your anger/anxiety when he walks in the door. It's a very tough situation to get through, particularly if your spouse is resentful and unsupportive. [b]But it's easy for him to avoid the resentment, he just won't come home until after dinner.[/b][/quote]

If the genders were reversed would it be okay for the mom to take a lower paying, inflexible job with unpredictable hours and leave DH to take on added kid and household responsibilities plus  figuring out for the budget shortfall when they were already working full time and would be told to hide their resentment or DW just wouldn’t come home to dinner?  Whether there is resentment expressed or not, both parents have a responsibility to their children.  There is also a productive way to bring up the things contributing towards the resentment without attacking the other person. [/quote]

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