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[quote=Anonymous]I just don't get what you're asking here. You're going to be emotional? Or you don't want the stink eye? You don't like the deceased SIL's husband, nor her son, so you won't focus on them. So what are you focusing on? Why would you be over emotional? And for anyone saying skip it, come on. A family member dies, and you don't have the common courtesy to step outside your life for one stinking day and memorialize her? Or, even, gasp the horror TWO days out of the year? That will get you in trouble with the inlaws more than anything else (and deservedly so). Bring some sort of bribery item for the toddler (I don't care if it's M&Ms, whatever works, and bring plenty of it!) and play the role you're supposed to play in the family with some level of grace and dignity. [/quote]
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